Bonuses - Vegas Immersion Inside Scoup (Qualification)

 

Anything that you can DLV yourself about just works so well.

[MORE ABOUT DLV AND DHV IN 11.3]

 

TELLING A COOL STORY ABOUT YOURSELF ISN’T THAT GREAT.

 

It’s better for her to tell you a story about her because that way she’s investing.

If you just tell a story about yourself, all that time you just spent investing, you gained absolutely NOTHING from it.

 

KEY PHRASE:

“I Feel like I’ve been talking about myself all night, I don’t know anything about you”.

If a girl says this, that means you have good investment.

 

After you get the key phrase, you can drop a little story about yourself, that’s super awesome, but you make is very short and don’t speak more than 2 minutes.

The story can be some funny bullshit if you want it to be. Like your dad killed a dog in front of you and it scarred you for life. It’s some retarded thing that isn’t even true. But you can tell a true story as well. Go with the flow.

This way you make a bridge of immense trust, and then get her to continue talking about herself.

BUILD EVEN MORE INVESTMENT!

 

The crazy story about yourself rewards her for all the investment she put into you and she just automatically relates to it because she feels empathy of is amused by the story. This way you build massive rapport.

 

It’s called a CRAZY COMFORT STORY.

 

You dump this on a girl when she has talked so much about herself that then she requires some investment from you or she will feel that she doesn’t trust you. So you dump this crazy story that’s cooler than everything that she said, and she will love you.

 

IMPORTANT CONCEPT.

 

This only applies to you if you are a clever individual.

Most people are dumb as fucking box of rocks.

So to effectively communicate with them you DUMB YOUR LANGUAGE DOWN, but NOT YOURSELF.

You still are the smart individual that you are. Just hide it using dumber verbal and body language.

 

IT’S BETTER TO BE SMART AND LOOK STUPID THAN TO FLAUNT BEING SMART!

 

NOTE!

In venues, the louder the music, the SHORTER your phrases should be. Don’t be speaking elaborate sentences if people can barely make out what you are saying.

Short and to the point.

 

It’s not the quantity of words behind the Investment, it’s the CONTENT behind the words.

 

After you’ve established the attraction, the risk of you Investing too much into the conversation kind of goes away.

The more attraction equity that you have, the less there is the risk of you overinvesting.

 

After you’ve established a lot of attraction by using breaks in rapport and qualification, and you have reached a substantial amount of attraction, such as a kiss, you can start to invest more into the conversation without losing the attraction.

But you have to keep on PUSH-PULLING the breaks in rapport and qualification.

 

GOLDEN RULE OF INVESTMENT-ATTRACTION:

WHOEVER IS INVESTING THE MOST, IS THE MORE ATTRACTED IN THE OTHER PERSON.

 

HOW TO DEAL WITH GUYS WHO JUMP INTO YOUR INTERACTION AND TRY TO STEAL IT:

It all comes down to frame control.

DO NOT go all alpha and try to force him out, that just causes more problems.

Instead, ASK HIM A QUESTION. The more he speaks about what you asked him, the more he falls into your frame of you controlling the interaction and him just being controlled by the situation.

This in the eyes of the girl sets a frame that he is just some guy that doesn’t mean anything.

 

You don’t have to be louder, stronger, more alpha. Just get him distracted on some topic to he loses focus on your interaction and comes off weaker.

This way he fits into your frame, which you control.

 

Interaction with the girl:

 

The worst thing is you not telling any awesome stories, and her not telling any awesome stories and there is just no interaction whatsoever.

 

The second worst thing is you just telling an awesome story that makes you look awesome, but the girl not saying anything at all.

 

The highest value thing to do - is you not tell any stories about yourself, but you get her to get the urge to spew out a lot of awesome stories about herself.

If you get her to spew it all out, guess what that is? INVESTMENT!

And every once in a while, you throw her a ‘bone’, a reward so that you don’t alienate yourself from her by not building any trust because you’re not speaking about yourself.

 

Getting the girl to qualify herself to you and making her feel a need to tell you all about herself SO MUCH BETTER than you just telling her how awesome you are.

 

Asking a girl “What’s the worst thing she’s ever done on the job”.

It’s making a girl feel shitty, but feeling ok for telling you about the shitty thing that she did.

This is an amazing qualifier for mid-transition game.

 

ANYTHING THAT MAKES HER FEEL INSECURE.

But the key to not making it mean is to let her know that you are NOT JUDGING HER FOR IT.

 

 

“You look like a nurse”. (or any other cool profession).

This is a great one for two reasons:

1 - If you get it right, that’s going to build massive rapport.

2 - If you don’t get it right, she will qualify herself to you by telling you who she is.

It doesn’t matter what you get from the girl, because either way it’s going to be a form of Investment.

 

VERY IMPORTANT CONCEPT:

QUESTION VS STATEMENT.

 

Question: Do you travel a lot?

Statement: You look like you travel a lot.

 

The question can always turn into a Yes or No question, which is bad.

The statement can always be elaborated upon and you can gain SO MUCH MORE INVESTMENT from the Statement that you could ever get from the Question.

 

SO MAKE THE SWITCH.

TURN QUESTIONS INTO STATEMENTS.

 

The more UNSPECIFIC your QUESTION is, the more UNSPECIFIC your ANSWER will be.

 

THIS NEXT ONE IS HUGE:

 

ELICITING MOTIVATION

Eliciting Motivation, Creating a win-win situation, and then closing on that situation.

 

If you can Elicit a girl’s motivation, you can close her without any logistical screening.

 

In game, Eliciting Motivation is her being MOTIVATED to INVEST into you and the interaction.

 

Keep her ELICITING on a hamster wheel, keep her going. This is the best form of INVESTMENT.

 

 

If you can keep spinning the hamster wheel, you can get anything you want out of the girl.

 

Then it’s your duty to the give all that energy a DIRECTION and take all that Elicited Motivation somewhere where it will help you.

Because as a man, the burden of pickup is all on you.

 

When you properly Elicit someone’s Motivation, they will be talking for like an hour, and they wouldn’t even know it.

The hour just passed with them giving all of that Investment and them not knowing it because the segway is just so naturally flowing.

 

Eliciting Motivation by making a STATEMENT is like an escalator where it only goes up gradually with no stopping. (Metaphor).

 

However, by asking a QUESTION it makes it like an elevator where the girl can get off on any floor. (Metaphor).

 

The more that you can Elicit what her goals are right now in this moment, this night, what she’s trying to do, the more you can find that out and the more you get get her to qualify herself about it, the easier it will be to close that bridge gap between her motivations and yours, and close her.

 

Then further on, it’s her motivations in life and in general.

First the immediate motivations, and then later on the more broad concept motivations.

 

In daygame, in the daytime, most girls are doing something, so their initial motivation is not to be hanging out with you. So Elicit their Motivation and then either change it to what you want, or go with her motivation.

 

Eliciting Motivation by QUESTION is ASKING HER.

Eliciting Motivation by STATEMENT is ASSUMING.

 

ASSUMING is better than ASKING because when you ASSUME it, she will INVEST even if you are right or wrong.

 

“HOW OLD ARE YOU?”

 

No girl is going to be comfortable with this answer. It doesn’t matter if she’s young or old, age is a topic that will get girls insecure about themselves.

 

When a girl is doing pickup things to you, that you are essentially supposed to do to them (this can include shit tests) then that means she is INVESTING. It’s a very good sign.

Example being is that she is teasing you aggressively.

If you ask how old she is, and she replies with “How old do you think I am?”- That is CLEARLY an INDICATOR OF INTEREST.

 

Shit Tests are just massive INDICATORS OF INTEREST!

 

A girl who doesn’t care about you or the conversation will just ignore you and walk away. A girl who is throwing you shit tests or teasing you, etc…

That is a girl that is showing INTEREST!

 

If a girl ever throws a question back out at you, it means that she’s INSECURE with the answer she’s going to give, so she plays this volley with breaks in rapport with you.

 

HUGE INVESTMENT:

1 - Break Rapport

2 - Qualify

3 - Repeat

 

NOTE!

Harsh disqualifiers are not bad. Just qualify afterwards so that the girl doesn’t get upset.

 

USE ASSUMPTIONS INSTEAD OF QUESTIONS.

 

Cold Read - Something that you can say that’s applicable to 95% of all girls.

 

Qualifying a girl is a tool of self-amusement. It’s fun to throw things at the girl to see where she will step up and qualify herself. Fuck with her. See if she has what it takes.

 

OFTEN, ACTUALLY, REALLY - Great words.

They ASSUME that a girl does said action(s) that you said.

By adding these words, you will get her to qualify much more.

 

 

ONE GREAT BREAK IN RAPPORT IS TO JUST PINCH A GIRLS FAT, EVEN IF SHE DOESN’T HAVE ANY AT ALL.

THE REACTIONS YOU GET ARE FUNNY AS SHIT!

IT’S THE ULTIMATE BREAK IN RAPPORT!

GIRLS HATE TO BE FAT!

THEY ARE VERY SELF-CONSCIOUS ABOUT IT.

 

You want to be super crystal clear with the qualities that you want in your ideal girl. The more clear and specific you are, the more effective the You-Army is. The more specific you are, the better the quality of girl you will get from your You-Army.

 

You also need to know the qualities that you DON’T want your ideal girl to have.

 

You need to know what you are looking for!!!

Qualities can be of physical appearance and of personality.

 

It doesn’t matter if the girls that you meet fit your ideal descriptions, you have to realize that there are 9s and 10s out there that are not your type.

However, that doesn’t mean that you’re not going to hook up with them.

 

Hook up with hot girls, for reference experience, but date the girls that are your type.

 

THIS ONE IS FUCKING HUGE!!!!!

 

QUALIFY EVERY GIRL THAT YOU MEET UP AGAINST YOUR PERFECT GIRL!

This will make you very very attractive as you are disqualifying her and breaking rapport SO WELL with this.

 

It’s called THE WALL OF QUALIFICATION.

THE SCREENING WALL.

 

Fuck the girl’s standards. Put yourself as the prize, and then qualify the girl up to your standards.

 

This way, no matter how hot the girl is, you will never be intimidated by her. Because you are not playing her bullshit. YOU are setting the standard that SHE has to live up to.

 

COMPARE HER TO YOUR IDEAL GIRL, DISQUALIFY HARD AF.

This is how you break her massive ego of her being the pretty princess, and makes you the King, and her your bitch, no matter how pretty or famous she is.

 

Make her qualify herself to you SUPER AGGRESSIVELY.

 

YOU WANT TO BE CAREFUL THOUGH!

You don’t want to qualify her too hard so she goes suicidal and kills herself. You just want to qualify her enough so that it destroys her ego and puts you in the frame of the dominant.

 

The act of putting her through this Screening Wall is alone going to build the attraction, because you set the frame, the standard, and then disqualify her on it.

 

HOW TO KNOW IF A GIRL HAS GOOD HEAD:

If she can put her thumb into her hand and squeeze her hand over her thumb, she won’t have gag reflex. This is 100% true.

When you hold your thumb in your hand and squeeze on it, you won’t have gag reflex.

A good blowjob is more enthusiasm than it is technique. If she has good enthusiasm about it, you know that you’re going to get good head.

It’s enthusiasm, and a little bit of technique.

 

The whole point of qualifying the girl is not so that you can find your dream girl. Fuck that. One day you’ll find her, eventually, but that will take ages.

The whole point is so you can fuck her.