Bonuses - Attraction Building Sequence

 

*Before you read on, take note that the concepts in this 15 minute video are so powerful compared to everything else. This is probably the most useful part of the entire product.*

 

Get the girl to talk about herself.

Reward and punish compliance.

And then move the interaction to where something can happen, because LOGISTICS TRUMP GAME.

 

Breaking Rapport Creates Attraction

 

THE SEQUENCE:

 

0 - Establish Commonalities

1 - Build Comfort

2 - Break Rapport

3 - Qualify

4 - Sexually Escalate

 

You repeat the sequence all throughout the night / throughout the interaction until sex. This is exactly what you do the whole time in set.

 

The sequence isn’t you doing each point for 5 minutes. It’s MICRO. It’s done sentence by sentence.

 

This is what flirting is. Flirting = Executing The Sequence.

 

The sequence is what guys who get laid do. This is how you build attraction. This is how you flirt. Just fucking do it.

 

Your state is irrelevant. It doesn’t matter how you feel. You can feel shit, but if you just execute the sequence, and the girl FEELS BETTER AROUND YOU THAN WITHOUT YOU, then you’re all set.

Flip the script. Think about how you can make the girl feel a certain way about you rather than elevating your state.

 

THE BEST VERBAL GAME CONCEPT IN THE WORLD:

In your mind you have a revolving set of phrases you could say, and things you can do to keep the interaction with the girl going forward.

Fuck That.

Be purely focused about how much BUY-IN you can get from her into the conversation.

 

Reach the HOOK POINT, then let the girl talk and talk and talk, and then REWARD her for her participation, so that she keeps talking.

Make her feel really good about herself for talking to you.

 

Use things such as VALUE and MOMENTUM to keep her on the Investment / Buy-In cycle.

 

ESTABLISH COMMONALITIES! The more commonalities you establish earlier on in the interaction, the better you are able to break rapport and gain attraction.

 

Guys feel like commonalities with females have to be something big. For a female, a commonality can be the lowest common denominator and still be a big commonality. Some bullshit thing that you have in common can blow up into very big rapport, which you then break to make attraction.

 

An example of this is say you and a girl have the same birthday. Like so what? But she flips the fuck out and obsesses over it, because in her mind it so cool.

 

You want to establish as many surface level commonalities as possible in order for you to establish that base level of comfort, for you to then tease with different breaks in rapport.

 

DLV - Demonstration of Lower Value.

DHV - Demonstration of Higher Value.

 

When talking to girls, DLV works so much better than DHV. It’s self-deprecative humor. You’re demonstrating lower value, and it’s funny because you’re doing it on purpose, and she knows that it’s a joke, and then identifies you as a High Value Person.

 

If you disqualify yourself and demonstrate low value in a concise and clever way, the girl will think that you are fucking with her, and that you are the complete opposite of what you said.

Luke does AGGRESSIVE DLV. But it’s up to you how much you (consciously, on purpose) devalue yourself to the girl.

 

If you DHV, you are just another dude who is bragging and the girl will NOT be impressed.

 

If you DLV, the girl will think that you are saying all that because you don’t want her to know that you are a millionaire.

 

Any time you want to DHV, DLV yourself instead. It’s much more effective.

 

If you say that you have a small dick, that’s better than you saying that you have a big one.

If you have a Ferrari, say you drive a 1996 Honda Civic.

If you have a penthouse, say you live in a 1 room ratted out apartment.

 

NOTE!

DO NOT DHV AFTER YOU DLV.

It will mess everything up and you will lose SO MUCH VALUE.

 

There is no point in stunting. Pay for what you can afford and don’t lease your cars. 9s and 10s have dated people that have more nice things than you, so what are you stunting for? If you can afford a Ferrari 488, buy it. If you can’t, don’t lease it as your main car. Lease only when you really need it and use Uber as your main transport.

Don’t be that guy with the leased Ferrari and the shitty apartment. Live on what you make.

If you want all the flash, just make more money. If you stunt and you can’t afford it, you’re just that broke nigga that rappers diss.

 

You shouldn’t lease. BUY YOUR SHIT! Don’t stunt and go broke trying to impress 9s and 10s who just won’t be impressed by any of it.

 

People can out-compete you in terms of Value, Fun, Money, Looks, etc…

But no-one can ever out-compete you in INVESTMENT.

If you make the girl INVEST more than she invests in other guys, she will stay with you.

 

The 4AM Effect.

If you can get a girl back at your place at 4AM, what’s the chance that something’s going to happen?

Very High. Super High. 99% High. Because Logistics Always Trump Game.

 

Commonality building is SO CRUCIAL.

If you’re a beginner, start every conversation with how many commonalities you can establish out of the girl.

5-8 commonalities, and it’s crazy, you have so much rapport. Then break it and you get insane attraction.

 

Just the commonalities alone will buy you a 2 hour interaction. And then use that 2 hour interaction to build INVESTMENT with different BREAKS IN RAPPORT such as teasing, bantering, negging, nicknames, physical games, verbal games, disqualification, breaking rapport tonality, self-amusement, and so many others.

 

^ Those are examples of types of BREAKS IN RAPPORT ^

 

AMAZING TEASING DISQUALIFIER (Introducing girl to friend):

You: “Hey bro, meet *name*. She’s amazing but her butt’s just not good enough for us. It’s not round enough.”

Her: “What are you talking about! What do you mean!”

You: “Whoa, calm down, I said you’re really pretty, I’m trying to introduce you to my friend, shut up.”

Her: “No, but you said I don’t have a nice enough butt!”

You: “No I said your butt’s great, it’s just not good enough, relax. Your butt’s amazing! Look at it, it’s amazing! I said you’re pretty, relax, your butt’s just not good enough.

And then do the whole ‘Put the drink on her ass’ thing.

That’s just fucking hilarious.

 

THE DRINK ON ASS DISQUALIFIER:

The ‘Put the drink on her ass’ thing is where you disqualify the girl by telling her that her ass is too small because it’s not functional and you can’t put your drink on it. Then when it’s on her ass you say that it’s not good enough because she can’t move with the drink on her ass, and you need a moving ass-table, and she will try to do it. It’s the funniest shit ever.

 

And then obviously you then QUALIFY HER, because you don’t want her upset and in tears because her ass isn’t big enough lmao. Qualify, hug, kiss on the cheek, and it’s all good.

AFTER YOU BREAK RAPPORT YOU QUALIFY! IT’S THE SEQUENCE!

 

POWER WORD: RELAX.

THIS WORD IS SUPER POWERFUL WHEN YOU ARE DISQUALIFYING!

WHENEVER YOU USE A DISQUALIFIER, FOLLOW UP BY “RELAX”, IT WILL GET THE GIRL SOOO TRIGGERED.

Example: “Your ass isn’t big enough to do bongo drums, but hey, it’s all cool, relax.”

 

LITERALLY I CANNOT FUCKING STRESS IT HOW POWERFUL THE WORD “RELAX” IS.

IT WILL GET THE GIRL SOOO TRIGGERED!

IT’S THE ULTIMATE DISQUALIFIER!

 

END NOTE:

It is VERY important that after BREAKING RAPPORT, you then QUALIFY. You don’t want the girl ever upset and in tears, because that can happen if you just aggressively disqualify with no qualifying.

BREAK RAPPORT and then QUALIFY her back. Then do it again and again and again.

THIS IS THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAY TO BUILD ATTRACTION.