Generation Gap and Steps to Bridge It

Generation gap is defined as the difference in values and attitudes 1) ____, especially between young people and their parents. More specifically, a generation gap can be used to describe the difference in actions, beliefs, tastes, etc. between members of younger generation when compared to members of older generations. One of the 2) _____ is that the modern world is changing rapidly; young people of today are more interested in their own lives rather than thinking about others. And 3) _____ their parents find themselves lonely and unable to modify their beliefs and attitudes according to modern standards. Besides, the adolescents of today are more interested in money, glamour and fame, and 4) _____ all the comforts of life they forget about their elders and their family. This attitude of youth is neither expected nor accepted by the parents. Thus, the conflict arises.

However, some of the steps can be followed 5) ______ the generation gap between parents and children. The first and foremost step to overcome misunderstanding between the two generations is regular communication. Such 6) _____ is a good way to built up sincere, respectful relationship between parents and children. The other way to bridge the gap is to spend quality time together. You may be talking, having fun, travelling, going to the movies, cooking and sharing food of each other’s taste. This will help to realize 7) _____ each other. More to the point, any gap cannot be filled until and unless each age group realizes the need of the other. If parents need children to take care of them, 8) _____ to guide and protect them at time of difficulty. And as a final step, the willingness to allow others to have their point of view without making it a contest or a reason for arguing is the way that will help to bridge a gap between two generations and create a kind, trustworthy and respectful relationship between parents and children.

A) In the race to achieve

B) In order to bridge

C) How much you love and value

D) Between one generation and another

E) Reasons for generation gap phenomenon

F) Sharing ideas and feelings

G) It is no wonder that

H) So the children also need parents

Topic 12. Children’s feelings and emotions

Task 29. Read the text and answer the questions after it.

Feelings and Emotions

The incredible amount of confusion about feelings and emotions are in both the minds of the public and the attention of the “experts”. “Emotions” is the general term which encompasses the feeling tone, the bio-physiological state, and even the chemical changes we are beginning to understand underline the sensations we experience. “Feeling” is our subjective awareness of our own emotional state. It is that which we experience; that which we know about our current emotional condition. Feelings, particularly the complex and subtle range of feelings in human beings, are testament to our capacity for choice and learning.

In terms of frequency of expression, anger is normal. It exists everywhere and is in all of us. But most teachers and parents find it difficult to accept anger as normal and inevitable. The real issue for the teacher and parent becomes the question of how to deal with anger in oneself.

The pressures on us to control or hide our anger are very powerful. Teachers ask, “Will this be held against me as a sign of incompetence or immaturity?” Other concerns are: “What will the kids tell their parents?” and “Will this get back to the child become frightened? Will it damage him in some way?” or, even more upsetting, “Will the child get angry at me, become rebellious, and no longer like me as a teacher?”

These concerns are so real that most teachers try to hide their anger. The results of this are quite predictable: at best teacher who is straining to keep in anger is tense, irritable, and impatient; at worst the anger slips out in sarcasm or explodes in a rage of accumulated fury.

Some teachers report that they never get angry in the classroom. In further discussions with teachers regarding situations or behaviour which typically arouses anger some teachers recognize all the signs of anger, but actually did not feel anger in the classroom. But usually an observer or the children in the classroom recognize the signs of anger. Certain teachers are more successful at hiding anger, but unless anger is in a mild form, it will be out one way or another.

How do children react to anger? All of us, as we recall our own childhood experiences at school, can remember instances of teachers expressing anger in the classroom. Though children frequently face anger from adults, they do not always adjust to it in ways that foster their own growth and learning. Teachers report that children often react with confusion; they’re bothered, or their faces appear troubled. Some children are especially sensitive and hurt at the teacher’s anger, and a few children are even frightened. Sarcasm or biting remarks that touch areas of special concern for children can be remembered with special misery for many years.

 

1) What is “feeling” and what is “emotion”? Is there a difference between them?

2) What positive and negative feelings and emotions can you name?

3) What are possible results for the teachers who are trying to hide anger?

4) Do teachers get angry in the classroom? Is it normal?

5) Who do children face anger from?

6) How do children react to anger?

7) What can be remembered with special misery for many years?

8) What are your best and worst memories about your childhood?

Task 30. Decide if the following statements are true or false.

1) In terms of frequency of expression, anger is not normal.

2) Most teachers and parents find it difficult to accept anger as normal and inevitable.

3) The pressures on us to control or hide our anger are very powerful.

4) Anger will be out one way or another, it doesn’t matter how successful at hiding anger teachers are.

5) Children are never hurt by the teacher’s anger.

 

Task 31. Read the abstract from the following interview with six people who do not call their names.