Mark the statements as true (T), false (F)

T	F
		Belonging means a feeling of being loved and that you matter.
		You require flexibility in making decisions
		If you are feared you are respected.
		Honesty helps to create deep connection between family members

1) Belonging. It is important that each member of my family feel that they are loved, that they belong and that they matter. Creating a strong family unit is great but each person should be allowed the space and freedom to explore the activities they think they may enjoy. Coming together for special occasions and holidays and just spending time together as a family is what helps build that sense of belonging.

2.) Flexibility. The more flexibility you have in decision making, for example, the happier your family will be for it. Imagine one member of the family always thinking they are right and enforcing their way of doing things. This certainly wouldn’t lead to much happiness within the family unit.

3) Respect. For my family, to respect each other is to take feelings, thoughts, needs, and preferences in to account when making decisions. It also means acknowledging and valuing everyone’s thoughts, feelings and contributions to the family as a whole. Respect is indeed earned and there is a very fine line between it and fear. The only way to earn and keep someone’s respect is to first show them respect yourself. Respect as an important family value will extend out of the home and into school, work or other social settings.

4) Honesty. This is the foundation of any relationships that are meant to last. Mother-daughter, husband-wife, sister-brother. Without honesty a deeper connection will not form and certainly won’t last. Encourage honesty by practicing understanding and respect when someone tells you of their wrong doings.

 

Go on reading. Mark the statements as true (T), false (F)

T	F
		Nobody is perfect, everyone can make a mistake
		Generous person is ready to give money to people who need it.
		Miscommunication leads to unhappiness
		Responsibility is an inborn quality

5) Forgiveness. Forgiving people who have wronged you is an important choice to make. Yes, forgiveness is a choice. Keep in mind that everyone makes mistakes, we all occasionally say things we wish we hadn’t and non of us are perfect.

6) Generosity. Giving without thinking “what’s in it for me” is an important value for anyone wanting to be a responsible, contributing member to society. Through generosity we build empathy since we tend to think more about what people want or need. Being generous doesn’t mean simply handing over money to someone in need. It can also include giving your time, love, attention or even some of your possessions.

7). Communication. A failure to communicate will likely lead to unhappiness and misunderstandings. Communication is a lot more than simply speaking your mind. In addition to spoken words, communication also extends to tone, volume, expression, eye contact, body language and effective listening. When people feel they can talk openly about anything – hopes, dreams, fears, successes or failures – all without judgment, it’s encouraging and strengthens the bond.

8) Responsibility. We’d all like to be considered responsible people. Some of us are and some of us are decidedly less so. Responsibility is something that is learned. As a child you may have been shown how to put your toys away after playing, how to tidy your room or how and when to feed the dog. This sense of responsibility extends well into adulthood. An adult who has an intrinsic sense of responsibility comes to work on time, returns phone calls or meet deadlines.

 

Answer the questions

1) What does belonging to a family mean?

2) What does flexibility imply?

3) How to gain respect?

4) Why is honesty so important?

5) Is it necessary to forgive people?

6) What is generosity?

7) How to achieve communication?

8) Shall we learn how to be responsible?

 

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